Why do we feel the need to share? I ask myself and others this question a lot, especially when I see pictures of food on facebook or twitter. I didn’t ask to see Turkish Lamb Dumplings at 10:30 AM, but nonetheless my newsfeed shoots it right my way. My roommate expressed to me about 10 minutes ago that he makes the concious choice to occasionally share on facebook what he eats in order to provide a sense of maturity or what I call “grown-man” to female friends. This is an interesting concept because at first I thought that the sole purpose of sharing content online was to show entertainment and common emotion to others, but I think I was wrong. My new theory, similar to what my roommate discussed, is more personal.
People feel the need to share what they cook and eat on facebook in order to supply their peers with a sense of identity in order to establish how they want to be viewed. The purpose of their share was not to benfit others with helpful or inciteful information, but rather, with an intricately packaged image of what embodies them. The interesting thing about this typer of “share” or “sharers” is that they may not be the healthiest consumer of food, yet they demonstrate the opposite on their facebook, twitter and blog. I don’t blame girls for taking pictures of what they eat to show their friends that they’re consuming their daily value of vegetables and fiber, but it shows that there are different types of “sharers” in the world, atleast on social medias.
I have designated 3 types of sharers online, who they are and what they do.
Altruistic Sharer: This sharer is compasionate. They place high value on relationships. Fundamentally, they feel the need to share important, relevent information to others not because they think it’s what good people do, but because it truly helps people. This typer of sharer would most likely update their twitter, blog or facebook with class notes, job postings or send relevent information to people who are looking for it. I would go as far to say that the majority of University Professors are altruistic sharers because they often feel the need to pass along important information to students to genuinely help them. What a concept?
Socrates Sharer: The Socrates Sharer differs from the altruistic sharer in the sense that their “ends” are different. A Socrates Sharer is someone who poses questions to the world. Their purpose is to thoughtfully engage their friends with questions that provide a reaction or response. They are curious and willing to find truth in their friends and family. A socrates sharer might employ the poll tool on facebook in order to propose a question about a political argument. This type of sharer is important in the world because it creates reaction and action simultaneously.
Defining Sharer: Last but not least we come back to the “Defining Sharer.” This is your friend who tweets a picture of In-N-Out everytime they go home to Moraga, CA. Or, this is your friend who went to Market of Choice and spent $23 on ingredients to make an orzo, quinoa, raw veggie, gluten free, all organic salad and took a picture and shared via instgram so even the background is pretty. This typer of sharer wants the world to know that they do certain things that in the end help define who they are, what they like and who/what they’re looking for. The Defining Sharer needs to show the social media community that they are independent, funny, social and of course doesn’t need a microwave to make dinner.
What does this all mean? Well, I think psychologically it helps us categorize the different types of humans, but the greater interest to me atleast is that it shows how we employ these social medias and why. Let’s not forget that we’re all in this together. We signed up for facebook and twitter to share shit so I can’t bash the sharers, even the ominous defining sharer who just told me she studied until 3:00AM last night for her Human Phys mid-term by taking a screen shot of her laptop clock. It’s interesting to know why people choose to share the content they do and I think in the idea industry it can help us label and engage consumers more efficiently.
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